How do you get a girl to stop thinking your a Creep Or Pedo?

You either stop doing creepy things, or you avoid her for about a week and then she'll stop thinking of you as a creep if you do nothing wrong in that week.


Once a girl thinks you are creepy there is no going back and it will take her months sometimes years to see that you aren't a creep. That is--if she is still in your life. But usually she will judge you by one little mistake and hate you for life.

I have made a list of all the big no nos to prevent a girl from thinking you are creepy.

1. If you are shy and not very good at talking to girls do not try and talk to her often. If you repeatedly ask her to hang out, even as friends, she will begin to think you are creepy and tell you to stay away from her. The only exception is if she likes you back then she won't act like that.

2. If you get her cell number do not text her. If she doesn't text you first then only text her about once a month, or if u do just way what's up? or something like that and don't try to have an entire conversation over text because she won't want to text you unless she likes you and if she likes you she will text first. Also if you are texting a girl and she doesn't reply back never reply back something like, "are you there?" , "are you ignoring me?" or anything whatsoever like that or she will think you are creepy and tell you to stay away from her... Also never mention anything sexual over text or anything personal even if you have known her for a long time if she isn't interested in ou she will quickly be turned off by it and forget about all the good things you have done for her and how good of a friend you have been and she will tell you to stay away from her and your friendship will be over.

3. Never complain or tell a girl she is treating you wrong or act like you are the victim. Never get mad if she is hanging out with other guy friends, if she is your gf and she is screwing around then that is different, but never do that to a girl that just sees you as a friend.
In a girls mind they are never wrong and they never do anything wrong to you and everything is your fault. If you ever meet a girl who apologizes to you for how she acts or something she says to you then she is truly a one of a kind and rare-but amazing girl.

4. If you are not skilled in getting women to be attracted to you then if you mention to a friend that you like her and she doesn't feel the same way to not get mad or angry or hurt that she rejected you. and if you are hurt never ever let her know or realize that and just go back to being her friend as if you never mentioned that you liked her or else you will permanently lose your friendship with her if you continue to pursue her.


5. Do not repeatedly message a girl on facebook or myspace or on facebook chat. and if she doesnt message back do not send another message until she replies.


"Girls HATE pushy guys. it scares us. It makes us feel very threatened. We often don't know how to react, either, which scares us even more. We aren't bitches. And texts can be weird, unless the girl says to text. Texts mean you have a measure of familiarity. Like friends."

Do not blame girls for being mean or heartless. It isn't their fault. In the U.S. society women are lead to believe that they are victims, it isn't their fault they think you are a creep it is just a stupid standard in society that guys have to act a certain way or be a certain way or else we are weird or creepy.. It is the same concept with people that are nerds in school or not cool or popular or socially acceptable. Girls are the worst about this and they can't help it. And every girl that reads this will deny it and say it isn't true because "they don't believe they are ever wrong and everything is the guy's fault". They never try to understand or be understanding about guys who aren't skilled at getting girls or outgoing and talkitive... they just see you as creepy or weird and you won't be able to change that, its just the way things are, society sucks and life is just tough and we just have to learn to survive and live with it.